Thursday, October 23, 2008

nothing is constant but change

changes is inevitable.. and because of that, people get hurt, be able to hurt others and eventually lead to something w0rst or maybe good thing...


life is full of surprises... mahirap hawakan kung ano ang meron ka ngayon, kasi it might be gone sa hindi mo inaasahan... kaya nga siguro, we have to enjoy things while it lasts, enjoy everything kung ano ang meron sa NGAYON, kasi baka bukas, wala na... it sad but true... we can't say na naka-fix na because its not naman talaga.. people change and we can't do anything about it... we can't force them to stay the same...


just a thought - more of a question...


bakit may mga taong umaagaw ng happiness from someone else's happiness.. i mean, for example, you have your boyfriend, for less than a month, hindi kayo nagkikita because of your work or something like that, and then you found out, that his dating another girl... why, if that girl know that that guy is committed, still have to go on their way, i mean, of course i understand that, maybe the guy is pursuing it, but then when you know its wrong, bakit kailangan mo ipagpatuloy... when you know, its gonna break your girlfriends heart.. and change EVERYTHING...

its not bad to be happy, or wish to be happy, but then, its more peaceful and happy, when you know you're happy without having hurt someone else right?

i've read it and i share with you, "Just because something is good doesn't mean we should pursue it right now. We have to remember that, the right thing at the wrong time is still WRONG." This phrase says it all... i don't have to explain much further..

at the end, its not the third party that should be blame alone... because, it your other half pursue it, and you're happy, we can't do anything but let go..

pero kung kaya pa ayusin, why not... there's no harm in trying... and there's nothing wrong of making mistakes, (because we're only human, but we have to THINK...) when you know you'll learn from it and not commit the same mistakes...


(and by the way, i'm not saying this because i've been through this, but because i know, someone is going through the same situation, i hate the idea, but i understand both of them, and that i know i love them both...)


why stole someone's happiness when you can have your own..? why have to hurt someone to have someone who's someone else's happiness? I still don't get it...


I am not bitter..And this isn't about me... I love the person who's in this situati0n.. i love them both... i can't afford to see that person in vain - in pain...

this isn't the end of this post.. i'll update it sonner...

Monday, October 13, 2008

thank you!

if not for my best friend Erika, nakagawa na naman ako ng maling decision... she's always there for me not only to listen, and give advise (i mean GOOD advises) but she enlighten me and open my mind... she loves me that's why lahat ng sinasabi nya tinatamaan ako... she never fail to make me understand the things na naguguluhan ako... pero hindi sya nandidikta.. sarap ng pakiramdam having her as my VERY TRUE BEST FRIEND..

if not her, t*nga - t*nga na naman ako...